mewsicmama
01-15-2009, 06:38 PM
Several people have urged me to post regarding accusations made against me by someone (Hepburn/*****) I previously regarded as a very good friend. I have avoided responding to her attacks because I have seen what happens when the beast is fed.
The one time I did copy and paste something from the Deli to Hepburn/***** was when people were starting to say they thought the goddess admins were Hep in a costume. I suspected the same thing and didn't want her to go all apeshit like she does so I told her people were suspecting that so that she could gracefully stop her crappola before someone called her on it.
The night before that she (Hepburn/*****) was talking to me and ranting and raving about how I shouldn't trust (several people to remain unnamed in here) - also said some other people but I didn't know them so I don't remember their names. I do not have the extensive board history that many here have - hence not knowing who the people were. She (Hepburn/*****) was talking so fast I had a hard time understanding her. I actually thought it sounded like she was foaming at the mouth. Hepburn/***** knew that I was friends with the people she was warning me against, so I figured that was probably why she didn't want to let me into the new "MBA" board -- she told me it wasn't her decision, that the membership told her not to allow me. Now, considering I have been allowed into every board she has had for the last several years I felt it was kind of odd and asked her about it. Big MISTAKE!!!!
The next thing I know Hepburn/***** is turning around and twisting everything that was happening, calling me everything but a free white person (in email exchanges), and gleefully saying (all in CAPS with exclamation points) she would make sure that I was the person to be reviled now, and to see how I liked it. I never realized until this happened what people meant about her spinning a story. The details were being embellished as I watched in horror. I felt so bad after how she turned on me (it was my own damn fault - I know - I should have listened to everyone who tried to tell me not to trust her) that I went right to Zelda and told her what I did. It took me a couple days to formulate a post to the membership of the board about what I had done, and the membership finally decided to ban me after much discussion. I accepted that with good grace, apologized again, and took my leave.
She (Hepocrit) was so horrible that when she started really threatening me, I let her know I had pulled a Hepburn myself. I advised her that I kept copies of everything, and that I had learned that trick from the master herself. She said that it wouldn't do me any good because a lot of it was verbal. I told her that was fine because I had recorded it. That is when she really became unbefucking unhinged. Talk about a nut case. She was ranting and raving about what a horrible person I was for saving messages and taping her. Geez - when she does it it's really slick, but how dare someone do it to her?
At no time did I share PR's tragedy with her. I felt so damn bad about it
that all I wanted to do was somehow make his pain go away - but we all know that isn't possible.
Anyway, I wanted to let you know what happened as it seems like everyone is weighing in on the matter. I decided that this is not something (the
negativity) I want in my life anymore. I felt great when I cut it off with Hepburn/***** , and I was careful to be respectul toward her because I thought it was the mature thing to do. But she started bringing my name up right and left and it just proved to me that a woman scorned is a dangerous thing. It is sad that someone several years older than me isn't more mature than I am.
I have moved on to real life interests and I'm having a lot of fun with it. I have deleted my bookmarks to GT, The Deli and here. I did select the be notified of responses option for this particular thread. There are many people I will miss but those people I do have email addresses for as well as they have mine.
I will not have any type of discussion/discourse with Hepburn/*****. Nor will I respond to any messages from her current crop of best buddies. I actually like several of the people still at her board, I will miss them. ***** very clearly told me she wanted nothing further to do with me, to stay away from her and leave her alone. I DID keep up my end of that bargain. Unfortunately she did not do her part. I don't know what ever possessed me to think she would.
I hope everyone can get back to normal activities now and let this hurting stop.
The one time I did copy and paste something from the Deli to Hepburn/***** was when people were starting to say they thought the goddess admins were Hep in a costume. I suspected the same thing and didn't want her to go all apeshit like she does so I told her people were suspecting that so that she could gracefully stop her crappola before someone called her on it.
The night before that she (Hepburn/*****) was talking to me and ranting and raving about how I shouldn't trust (several people to remain unnamed in here) - also said some other people but I didn't know them so I don't remember their names. I do not have the extensive board history that many here have - hence not knowing who the people were. She (Hepburn/*****) was talking so fast I had a hard time understanding her. I actually thought it sounded like she was foaming at the mouth. Hepburn/***** knew that I was friends with the people she was warning me against, so I figured that was probably why she didn't want to let me into the new "MBA" board -- she told me it wasn't her decision, that the membership told her not to allow me. Now, considering I have been allowed into every board she has had for the last several years I felt it was kind of odd and asked her about it. Big MISTAKE!!!!
The next thing I know Hepburn/***** is turning around and twisting everything that was happening, calling me everything but a free white person (in email exchanges), and gleefully saying (all in CAPS with exclamation points) she would make sure that I was the person to be reviled now, and to see how I liked it. I never realized until this happened what people meant about her spinning a story. The details were being embellished as I watched in horror. I felt so bad after how she turned on me (it was my own damn fault - I know - I should have listened to everyone who tried to tell me not to trust her) that I went right to Zelda and told her what I did. It took me a couple days to formulate a post to the membership of the board about what I had done, and the membership finally decided to ban me after much discussion. I accepted that with good grace, apologized again, and took my leave.
She (Hepocrit) was so horrible that when she started really threatening me, I let her know I had pulled a Hepburn myself. I advised her that I kept copies of everything, and that I had learned that trick from the master herself. She said that it wouldn't do me any good because a lot of it was verbal. I told her that was fine because I had recorded it. That is when she really became unbefucking unhinged. Talk about a nut case. She was ranting and raving about what a horrible person I was for saving messages and taping her. Geez - when she does it it's really slick, but how dare someone do it to her?
At no time did I share PR's tragedy with her. I felt so damn bad about it
that all I wanted to do was somehow make his pain go away - but we all know that isn't possible.
Anyway, I wanted to let you know what happened as it seems like everyone is weighing in on the matter. I decided that this is not something (the
negativity) I want in my life anymore. I felt great when I cut it off with Hepburn/***** , and I was careful to be respectul toward her because I thought it was the mature thing to do. But she started bringing my name up right and left and it just proved to me that a woman scorned is a dangerous thing. It is sad that someone several years older than me isn't more mature than I am.
I have moved on to real life interests and I'm having a lot of fun with it. I have deleted my bookmarks to GT, The Deli and here. I did select the be notified of responses option for this particular thread. There are many people I will miss but those people I do have email addresses for as well as they have mine.
I will not have any type of discussion/discourse with Hepburn/*****. Nor will I respond to any messages from her current crop of best buddies. I actually like several of the people still at her board, I will miss them. ***** very clearly told me she wanted nothing further to do with me, to stay away from her and leave her alone. I DID keep up my end of that bargain. Unfortunately she did not do her part. I don't know what ever possessed me to think she would.
I hope everyone can get back to normal activities now and let this hurting stop.